thinking about Easter

yesterday morning, i was so encouraged by the prayer I read out of Valley of Vision. While I feel like I understand the concept of justification (my being made right with God by the death of Jesus Christ and his righteous obedience), this prayer was so helpful to really get my arms around what it means to "rest in the righteousness of Christ" and not in my ability to obey God. I am often guilty of thinking and doing exactly what this author expresses, and it was so encouraging to think about the purpose of God's chastising me for my sin - for the effects that it has on my heart and my position before Him, rather than "shaping me up" or making me "get my act together."

This is so relevant to thinking about Easter this week. I know many people who reject Christianity because they assume it is a moralistic code and a life of trying to live perfectly and do all the right things. And we all know this is impossible and the great news is that it is an unnecessary burden to bear. Christ did not come to die in order that I might live a perfect life. He came to die exactly because I could not live a perfect life. As I think on His death and resurrection this Good Friday and Easter, this prayer is a beautiful reminder of why I am so grateful for His death and resurrection - it is because Christ came in human form, lived a perfect life of obedience, was killed and took upon Himself the wrath of God for the sin of the world, and was vindicated by God by being raised from the dead, reconciling me to God and therefore making all things new. The beauty of the Gospel is that I can never live perfectly, but my hope is not in my ability to obey perfectly - it is not even in my faith (that would be scary as my faith waivers at times) - my hope is in this work of Jesus Christ on my behalf. No wonder we sing with such joy on Easter morning! With it comes the hope of new life! I hope this prayer is as helpful for you as it was for me.

RELIANCE

My Father,
When thou art angry towards me for my wrongs
I try to pacify thee by abstaining from future sin;
But teach me
that I cannot satisfy thy law,
that this effort is a resting in my righteousness,
that only Christ's righteousness, ready made,
already finished, is fit for that purpose;
that thy chastising me for my sin is not
that I should try to reform, but only
that I may be more humbled, afflicted, and
separated from sin, by being reconciled,
and made righteous in Christ by faith;
that a sense of my sufficiency and ability in Him
is one means of my being immovable;
that I can never be so by resting on my own faith,
but by trusting in thee as my only support,
by faith;

So Jude may look like his daddy...

... but he definitely got his love to dance from his mama :)  I have found that putting him in the Bjorn and dancing with him works wonders at calming him when he is fussy!  Yea for dancing!  Especially to our favorite version of Hey Jude by Joe Anderson from a movie called Across the Universe (thanks, Ash!)  You can ignore my singing in the background (not my gift) - it's so hard to listen to this song and not sing :)

How I found Jude last week....

completely broken out of his swaddle .... and his clothes :)  Don't ask me how - he is a strong little guy!

lessons to learn

for me, warm weather and sunshine has a way of bringing with it renewed hope and an assurance that life is "do-able".  but the question i asked myself this morning is "if christ is enough for me, then why can the weather often have a more powerful impact on my emotions than the promises of God?"

this past weekend, I began feeling really discouraged and weepy all the time...exhausted and wondering if this was what they call baby blues.  it poured rain all weekend, dark, gloomy and cold.  and my spirit felt the same way.  jude cried so much and i couldn't figure out why ... is he getting enough milk, is he in pain, is he tired, is he sick?  i was exhausted and anxious.  on saturday, greg took jude for a drive and told me to nap.  he came home with a sleeping baby and these: (first time I've gotten a dozen roses since we dated - we're in seminary, remember- not because he doesn't want to!)  i felt so loved and taken care of.

this morning, as I was taking a shower (the only place I seem to be able to have time to think), I began to reflect on things I was learning.  It is ironic how much a child can teach us about ourselves in relation to God.  Jude cries everytime it is time to eat.  I mean really cries ... like a lion.  So when I pick him up to feed him, I say, "Jude, mama hasn't forgotten you.  I know it's time for you to eat.  I woke YOU up to eat! Everytime it is time to eat, I feed you.  You can trust me.  Have you not figured that out yet? :)"  And I stopped to think - wow.  I do the exact same thing.  God provides every single thing I need.  He has not forgotten me.  He has never left me and He gives me exactly what I need when I need it.  Why have I not learned to trust Him when this pattern never changes?  But HOW do I trust the Lord in this way and for these things?  I know that is true, but how do I do it?

So I have been concerned about my milk supply recently since Jude has been gaining weight so slowly - we had been supplementing him for quite a while.  I always wonder if he will get enough that day.  As I was praying for Jude this morning, I asked the Lord to provide exactly what Jude needed for the day - just as He provided manna for Israel in the wilderness.  And it made me stop mid-sentence and think, this is HOW I should be trusting the Lord.  He never ceased to give Israel what they needed.  But they could not hoard it, they could not store it, they could not anticipate their needs for tomorrow and take care of that day as well.  They could only wake up, and go gather what they needed for that day - and it was the perfect amount.  So today, I will trust the Lord to supply what I need and what Jude needs.  And I cannot provide for tomorrow or store up so that I can make sure he has enough ... but whether or not my milk supply increases, God is Jude's heavenly Father, who cares far more for him than Greg and I can.  And He will provide what Jude needs.  I feel so encouraged by the faithfulness of the Lord today.

So while the week has been full of ups and downs, these are shots from some of my favorite moments.  March has been uncharacteristically warm in Boston.  We usually have snow.  Today, the high was 68.  So yesterday, my good friend Caroline (who has a 2-week old little girl) and I took our little ones on a walk.  Thank you, Kathy, for this amazing Patagonia bunting!  We use it everytime we go for a walk and it is perfect for the Boston spring.  Grandparents are the greatest!

Late one evening, I had fed Jude and Greg was on the phone with a friend.  So Jude and I just relaxed in the bed waiting on Greg before we went to sleep.  He was wide awake looking up at me and just sprawled all over me....I wanted to freeze that moment and stay there forever.

waking up from a nap after our walk ... one moment is the furrowed brow, or as Greg calls it, the "whatchu talkin' bout, willis?" look.  the next moment, the smile in his

greg has been the most amazing husband and father.  to give me breaks, he'll study with jude :)  such sweet moments.

Have you seen the back of Jude's hair?  I love it.  How many newborns do you know with a mullet?  :)

Gaining weight!

What a great day!  Jude slept for a 6-hour stretch last night and Greg and I were able to get some much needed sleep!  AND it was 56 degrees and sunny in Boston today so Greg's mom and I got out and went for a walk with Jude in the Bjorn.  And the great news is that he weighed in at 8 lbs. today at our lactation appointment!  So we're now back up to and have even surpassed his birth weight!  So while feeding is still a challenge and we are working hard at getting extra calories in him, he has really turned a corner and is doing so well.

We are now on our own as my family is gone and Greg's mom left today.  It will be interesting to see how we can survive without the help of our family - I'm not sure laundry or dishes will ever be done again :)

I (ginger) am feeling much better.  I got an infection this past Friday, but I'm on antibiotics and my body seems to be on the road to healing right now.  I was actually able to get outside and do some things this past week.   We went to church, Greg's mom babysat and sent us on a date and treated us to a really nice dinner, we went to visit the Smiths in the hospital with their new baby, and went for a walk!

I love this little one more every day.  his cry sounds like a lion's roar.... seriously.  and it is really loud.  This is one of my favorite things - he likes to smile in his sleep - he won't do it for us when he is awake, but it is one of his many faces while he sleeps - I love it.

 

Talking to daddy  

  

kisses from Grammy 

  

ginger and jude are both exhausted 

 

Ginger's parents go back to Alabama - thank you for all your help!

  

the eyes of Texas are upon you... 

jude's first Sunday at church

 

  

  

Greg's mom just left today to go back to Austin - Thanks for all your help!! 

 

 

  

bath time with Momo and Daddy 

 

Thank you, Kathy, for the amazing Patagonia bunting!!  Jude fell asleep all warm and cozy in it on our first walk around campus.

 

  

Our close friends, Nick and Caroline Smith, just had their baby girl, Ellie on Friday! We got to go visit them in the hospital that afternoon. 

 

Jude's birth at Beth Israel and coming home